AGREED. The patriarchy certainly exists, and it certainly has it’s consequences (toxic masculinity, for instance) but it isn’t permission to consider every older white man as an agent of bigotry and oppression or dismiss what they say out of hand. We’re all individuals with unique and storied histories. Patriarchy has affected all our stories, but it isn’t the sum of our stories.

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