Hey, thanks for writing this. I am in a similar position, even though I haven’t written anything about it. I’m glad I’m attractive, I guess, as it’s better than the alternative (I suppose), but since people usually make assumptions about attractive women, I’ve spent most of my life dressing alternatively or simply dressing poorly to avoid these assumptions. Would be nice if people didn’t make assumptions about you based on your phenotype, but that’s the world we live in.

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