And, ok, that’s a good explanation for why he doesn’t say “I had a threeway last week,” or “I haven’t had sex in over a year,” but it doesn’t explain why men don’t say “touching her breasts made me really horny.” However, I think that’s covered in It just doesn’t feel right. I think a man would feel fucking weird to openly talk about how turned on he got.
I’ve noticed this. Men will share their sexual exploits as conquests, not as enjoyable experiences they’ve had. And some men I’ve spoken to seem to use listing their conquests in place of genuine connection over seuxal experiences when they do not want to, because they don’t have the language to do anything else.