I’ve noticed this. Men will share their sexual exploits as conquests, not as enjoyable experiences they’ve had. And some men I’ve spoken to seem to use listing their conquests in place of genuine connection over seuxal experiences when they do not want to, because they don’t have the language to do anything else.

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