Thanks for the response! I've avoided mentioning these kinds of experiences in my writing thus far because I didn't want to alienate people who were weirded out by gender woes.
But then I thought, I'm going to do more for the world by being honest about my experience than by whitewashing it (or in this case, ciswashing it). The world already has enough cis narratives out there anyway 😂
And I too love ASMR videos, so nothing but acceptance from me here my friend