Women actually do this fairly often. We feel bad for feeling threatened, so we tell ourselves “it’s not that big a deal, what he’s doing” and it’s only after we are finally alone in our own homes again that we think ‘damn I didn’t want to do that.’ That doesn’t make it rape, either, of course

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